the currency of conversations

Every conversation is a transaction. Master conversation and you can become rich. We speak to each other because we ultimately desire something. Actually, each one of us has a value…

lose at what matters

There are forces that pull us in all directions. These forces can be friends, families, managers, anyone. And they offer incentives that are ultra enticing. These incentives may be so…

i forgot how to talk

I’ve forgotten all my lessons. When it comes to talking, and listening, you have to recognize what’s being said, what’s not being said, and what can’t be said. Words are…

current priorities

I pause and reflect to see what I am doing. While I am obsessed with speed, I must be even more obsessed with direction, else I’ll be going nowhere fast….

independence day

Independence isn’t acquired by running away from your captors. You have to face them head on, fight, and earn your freedom. No matter how far I travel, away from the…

dying wish

My friend’s cousin passed away recently from leukemia. He had a will for his family members. A few thousands when to this person. Another few thousands went to another. There…

window of escalation

When a woman gives you the green light… When a coworker says something that pisses you off… When anyone does something that triggers your positive or negative emotion… There’s a…

pushing back on mentors

It’s important to have people in your life that call you out on your bullshit. That’s where mentors come in. I’ve got plenty in my life. And when they speak,…

right direction

I feel like my life is heading in the right direction. And it feels fucking good. Work is good. Family is great. Growth is happening. My core values are making…